So last weekend Dad and I found a house as we were walking around a neighborhood we liked. I took note of the address to look up the tax records, and lo and behold the house was listed and expired about a year ago. My hopes started going up, and over the past week I have become obsessed with this house.
Every time we have been interested in a house in the past there has always been something insurmountable. The price is too high, or the houses in our price range have a steep driveway, are next to a freeway or railroad tracks, are on a small lot, have no room for a garage, etc. I really want the next house we move into to be a long term house that we can grow into, but I also am desperate to get out of our tiny house in our crappy neighborhood. This house seemed like the perfect solution. It would be affordable, it’s not updated but it’s the mid-century style we want, and it’s on a large level lot with a 2 car garage.
There is, however, a glaring insurmountable issue. The woman who lives there isn’t motivated to move. She’s very old and according to the prior listing agent couldn’t find a place she wanted to go.
The problem with us waiting is that Dad would have to qualify for the loan. We are about 60k upside down on our primary residence so we can’t sell. I cannot qualify for both mortgages. Currently, Dad would have no problem qualifying with his salary. However, last week we agreed that he would quit on the 16th of this month to make some headway in his own business. We have enough savings to last a few months while he gets off the ground. However, once he’s self-employed it will take 2 years of history before he qualifies again for a loan. So basically we have to move now or we’re stuck in this house for another 2 years.
We’ll see if any developments happen with this house over the next few days. Dad is willing to not quit if we can move towards closing on this house, but that seems unlikely. If the owner wants to move in 6 months, we’ll either have to pass up the deal or get really creative. Arg.